Where Were You When
President Kennedy Was Shot?
November 22, 1963
To fellow readers and writers, I sent out this query November 22, 2024 on the 61st
anniversary of the assassination of President Kennedy. The question was inspired by George Cummins a
former member of the US Peace Corps who had contacted his Peace Corps
group Tanzania 5, about their memories of that day. So I followed up with a similar question to
my former Peace Corps team Tanzania 10, who went to that country at the end of
1965, already two years after the
assassination. We have travelled on many
different paths since 1963 and we’ve been molded and shaped by many events in
our lives. I realize that you have to
be about 71 years of age to answer the
question. On the other end of that
spectrum, at about 85 years, our memories though fading still have some
indelible marks and interesting tales to tell.
Some only responded to say where they were on the map at the time, but
others were more willing to share
memories, thoughts, and opinions.
Volunteers responding also represent Morocco and Sierra Leone, and
Colombia. One respondent sent the front page story from their college
newspaper (Bowling Green State) which I’ve attached at the end of this. In checking out the papers of that date, I
learned of another tragedy on that day that has been long forgotten, a nursing home fire in Norwalk, Ohio where 63 residents died, many held in
their beds by restraints. It reminds me
that these things are happening everyday somewhere on the planet. In refugee camps, in The Congo, the West
Bank, Gaza, Lebanon, Israel, the Sudan, Mynamar, Kurdistan, Syria, and many, many other
places. We become immune to terrible
news in many instances, but the big events such as JFK, 9-11,
the Challenger, and a very few others tend to be those that link us to
shock and sadness. I hope that if you
read some or all of these accounts you will be moved to a few moments of
reflection and be able to show a good side of humanity to someone who needs and deserves it, maybe even to someone who doesn’t. It may be one of the few paths on which
people and nations can heal. Thank you
so much for sharing your stories.
All names
and identities have been removed from the accounts.
George Brose
Vancouver
Island, British Columbia
1. Doing my
college part-time job - washing test tubes for the School of Applied
Medicine
at UPenn with the radio
on - shared the dreadful news with students in a nearby classroom.
Last night, I was washing
up after some pre-Thanksgiving prep and realised it was
that fateful day 22
November and had no one nearby to "remember".
2. I was just leaving class at UC Berkeley and walking back to my apartment at Channing and Shattuck. Soon after I got in the door, my sister called, and I remember her words, “What are we going to do now?” She told me JFK had been shot and killed.
Like nearly everyone in the
country I spent the next two weeks glued to the TV as the saga unfolded.
3. I was in my final semester of college (I finished in the fall semester) at Alfred University. Myers Hall had the chemistry department and modern languages, among other departments at that time. I was walking out of the building to go to the student union when I saw an elderly lady, a faculty member from modern languages, sobbing while sitting on the steps to the second floor. Between sobs she reported that President Kennedy had been shot and killed in Texas. I was shocked and very sad, as one who saw Kennedy as “my President,” rather than the "national grandfather” as we saw Eisenhower in those days. I was in mourning for quite some time after that, and actually visited the White House that winter. Later I have visited the Kennedy grave site in Arlington National Cemetery several times. The event remains seared in my memory, and later I was in the same hallway, then as a member of the faculty, when I learned of the Challenger explosion. Those two memories will remain with me as long as I am alive.
4. On JFK's
assassination date I was a junior in school at U. of Oklahoma. There were
mixed feelings on campus about his death. I heard one coaching staff
member say, “Well, they shot Santa Claus in Dallas”. I spent the afternoon at the student union
watching the only color tv on campus. One of our tennis players
Paul Gregory knew Lee Harvey Oswald, from his association with the
Russian emigre community in Dallas. He made the mistake of mentioning
that and was picked up by some federal agency within hours for
questioning.
There have been lots of
theories about the assassination. One of the best I ever heard was by
someone who spoke on campus a year or so later from the Bertrand Russell
Foundation, but I can't remember his name or tell you what his theory
was. I do remember the hall was packed and he spoke for several
hours. No one left the room believing anything the Warren Commission had
proposed after listening to the speaker.
5. I distinctly remember when JFK was shot. I was in a
stall in the
Michigan
State University veterinary large-animal clinic holding a thermometer in the
anus of a cow.
A
colleague student yelled down the hallway that "John Kennedy has been shot!!"
For
some reason that I do not understand, my thought was that it was
"John-John", the son.
I
guess that my brain automatically shut off the enormity of it actually being
the President.
What
a horrendous and tragic loss to our country.
6. I was on my
way home from Peace Corps assignment in India. Staying at a Youth hostel in
West Berlin eating breakfast with some Americans. A German girl stood at our
table and said President Kennedy was killed. We did not react. Kept on talking and eating. She stood and
said what is wrong with you Americans? Don’t you care about your president? She
repeated that he was Killed. We really did not comprehend what she first said.
We apologized her and realized what she said. Of course our lives were changed
that day
7. When I got to Tanzania, with the Peace Corps ,I was sent to Mwanza by myself. Eventually they gave me a Danish volunteer as a roommate. His take on JFK's death was completely different than mine. After reading that famous (Warren) report our government published, I thought the "lone gun man theory" was correct-yes I was naive. He said that most Europeans thought the report was a coverup. He was shocked that Americans were so easily taken in. Do you think we'll ever know what happened?
8. Northwestern
University campus sitting in the library getting ready for afternoon seminar,
suddenly hearing a low murmur of voices all around me in a space usually dead
quiet in the morning.
9. At St. Paul’s
Cathedral, London, England, for a concert (age 16).
10. I was on my way home from Peace Corps assignment in India. Staying at a. Youth hostel in West Berlin eating breakfast with some Americans. A German girl stood at our table and said President Kennedy was killed. We did not react.Kept on talking and eating. She stood and said what is wrong with you Americans? Don’t you care about your president? She repeated that he was. Killed. We really did not comprehend what she first said. We apologized her and realized what she said. Of course our lives were changed that day
11. I was walking to class at the University of Arizona when I heard
people talking about Kennedy being shot . I couldn’t believe this was
true. As I was rushing to my dorm so I could watch the news, I
heard someone say, “I wonder what this will do to Goldwater’s chances.” I
was shocked by the news and angry about the reaction I had heard. The world
suddenly felt less safe and the partisan response made it much worse. Looking
back, it was a preview of today’s world.
12. We were both
in our senior year in high school. I was in Detroit Michigan sitting at a desk in my classroom at Benedictine High School when there was
an announcement over the overhead speaker.
B. said all the classes were
sent back to their homerooms at Chaminade high in
Dayton Ohio and an announcement was made over the speaker.
Hard to believe - 61 years
ago
13. I was in bed in my
Bachelors' Offices Quarters (BOQ) room in Okinawa. I heard it on the
radio. I was an ROTC lieutenant in the Military Police.
14. I was still in my
first few months in the Peace Corps in Casablanca, Morocco. My roommate and I
were returning to our apartment late in the evening after a long day when
one of our young neighbours stopped us on the street, saying, "Your
president has been shot." My roommate & I looked at each other
and asked, "What is he talking about?" The young man touched his
chest and said, "I am sorry,' before walking away. Neither of us
understood what he meant. There were no computers, mobile phones, etc. at that
time. We had no quick contacts from home. We left our apartment the next
morning, giving no thought about what the kid told us, only to find a long line
of our neighbors waiting to shake our hands to express their sorrow for us. We
were totally stunned and bewildered, But we were given several newspapers
confirming the current details. The rest of the day, at work and our other activities continued the like that. The memory of that day has
stayed with me forever.
15. Stanford
University.
16. I was in a class at college
when someone ran through the halls telling each class what had happened.
Everyone immediately scattered back to their dorms. The whole dorm spent
the next few days clued to the TV in the living room. Our campus had a
small lake and when people took a break from the TV, they walked around that
lake. I had met Kennedy over a year before and intended to go into the
Peace Corps. It was hard to think that all that hope was gone.
17. I was in my
junior year at Washington & Lee in Lexington, VA. I believe I was playing
handball about the time JFK was shot so was a little behind in hearing about
it.
I don't recall any great
sorrow, more just a numbness. I can't remember if I was a real fan of JFK.
Although my dad was a a union man and described himself as a
"yellow-dog" democrat I may have been partial to Nixon in 1960 since
that was the choice of many friends and JFK was a Catholic and suspect to my
Baptist faith.
I had just returned from a
summer in East Africa where I worked in a Baptist Secondary School in Mombasa
and also visited Zanibar for a few hours, Dar for a week where I had to preach
in a "revival" and also climbed Kilimanjaro from the Marangu Hotel
with a group of Brit school boys and two parents. (The mother parent and I were
only ones to suceed in getting to Gilman's Point.)
That summer's experience was
still being processed but had a definite liberalizing impact
In any event I was a dorm
counselor in the freshman dorm that year and one of my charges was a kid
from Staunton, only about thirty miles away. He decided to get a car from his
home and invited me to drive up to Washington for the funeral on Tuesday. It
must have been a three hour drive since I just checked Google maps and DC
is 190 miles way from Lexington.
We must have gotten there in
early moring and proceeded to park the car and look for a place to see the
procession from the Capitol to the Church. I don't remember exactly what we
saw. It passed very quickly. I don't remember seeing anyone I recognized in the
large group of family, but I do remember picking out Haile Selassi, Prince
Philip and maybe Charles DeGaulle from the large group of world leaders who
attended and walked. We left afterwards since attendees of the burial in
Arlington Cemetary were taken there by car.
I gradually became much more
political at W&L espousing Democratic leaders. Students at W&L were
incredibly conservative at this time. All men and all white, plus heavily
fraternity. All worshiped Lee. It wasn't enough to be a member of the Young
Republicans; there was also a Conservative Society. We liberals were vastly
outnumbered but managed to hold on to the student newspaper and make voices
heard. In the 1964 election the student body favored Goldwater by about 4 to 1
but faculty was 80% for Johnson. We liberals managed to keep Johnson posters
up. Students were generally shocked by Johnson's massacre of Goldwater.
I had an especially interesting
experience at a Conservative Society lecture. A Vice-Counsul or something
similar. from South Africa was invited to speak and he gave a glowing report on
the South African apartheid goverment. During the question & answer period
I asked him why Albert Luthuli, a Nobel Peace Prize winner was imprisoned on an
off shore island without any hope of release. He said he was a criminal and
besides we all knew from Martin Luther King's award that a Nobel Peace Prize
meant nothing. Loud applause.
Btw I was in Dar during my
third year when word came that Robert Kennedy had been shot. A bunch of
Americans gathered around a teletype machine in the Kilimanjaro Hotel late into
the night until word came that he was dead. One of the persons there was an
American black who was a sort of well known refugee from the USA. He was
interesting to talk with. No memory of his name.
18. I was a college
student at Bowling Green State University in Bowling Green Ohio.
I was shopping in downtown
Bowling Green when the news hit and spread like wildfire.
Walter Cronkite reported that evening near tears. It was a
shocking nightmare.
I saved the college newspaper, the B-G News when it next came
out on Tuesday, Nov. 26, 1963 and have attached it. I hope you can read it.
For those not too exhausted, here is the front page of the Norwalk Reflector Herald in Ohio about that nursing home fire story. Probably the only newspaper in the country with a headline above the assassination.
Ned
I was in grade 6 and while walking to school, I heard the news. Because people were so shocked, I knew that this was a really big deal. I can still remember the feeling in my stomach the news gave me. Laurel
George=in November of 1963 I was in my 3rd and final year at Long Beach State College, Long Beach, California. On that November afternoon, as I recall after the passing of all these many years, I was walking from our lower campus Gym-locker room to the track for my work-out with my cross-country mates. One of my team mates came yelling after us with the news of JFK's assasination. The group I was with heading out and I were stunned, of course. The work-out was cancelled and I ran to my car and headed home to our rented condo in Belmont Shore, a short drive of only a few miles. With one more semester before graduation then my graduate year for a teacher's degree, I was concerned that such a drastic historical event might interrupt our plans the future. My son Anthony was just 4 months old and his future seemed hanging in the balance, uncertainty heavy on my mind. My wife met me at the door with tears in her eyes, a worried expression on her face. We had recently gone to an auction and perchased a workable TV for $5.00 along with some furniture items to make a home for us. We sat on the couch watching Walter Cronkite deliver the latest news about how it happened, specifics being very limited early on.
ReplyDeleteLooking back now, JFK.s assasination and the twin towers attack both stand out in my memory as the worst historical events of my life, December 7th 1941 and WWII having started before I was a year old. I appreciate you asking this question for those who did not live through the weeks and months that followed. Those were sad, sad days for my young family, as the Dark Days went on for months.